5 Must-heed Warning Signs He’s Not Into You
He’s really good looking and you like him very much. You’ve been seeing each other for a few weeks now. But something’s telling you that he’s not really serious about your relationship. Worse. He’s not that into you.
Now, you’re wondering if he’s just shy about his feelings, works too much to save for the rainy days or wants to take things real slow with you. But your inner voice is telling you that maybe he’s not really interested in you.
How can you tell if the guy you’re dating with is just a person who wants you by his side but he’s not really interested in you? Here’s a list of tell-tale signs that you need to heed so you can move on and find a person who can love you the way you want.
1. Doesn’t find a way to see you
Although it’s not easy to read a guy’s mind, it’s easy to see if he likes you that much. And if he wants to see you, no matter how busy he is, he’ll find a way. That is, if he’s really interested in you. However, if you’re doing most of the planning and he’s doing most of the “okay,” then you need to take a step back. If you’re dating him for just a few weeks, then it’s most likely that he’s not that into you. See what happens if you quit making plans.
2. Doesn’t flirt with you
Guys like flirting with girls, especially if they like them. However, if you’re not getting anything at all from that person, then he’s not worth your time. He’s not interested in you and you must accept that.
3. Doesn’t ask you out on a date
If you’ve been waiting for him to ask you out for weeks now, then you must accept the fact that he will never ask you out on a date. The waiting game can be horrible and you must face the fact that the “two of you together” isn’t going to happen. If he likes you, he has already made his moves and asked you out a few days after you showed him you’re interested in him.
4. Doesn’t introduce you to his friends
When a guy likes a woman, he can’t wait to introduce her to his friends and family. On the other hand, if you haven’t met his family and friends after a few weeks of dating him, then you must be honest with yourself. He’s never going to do that as he’s not serious about his relationship with you.
5. Doesn’t remember those important things you’ve told him
If he’s really interested in you, he’ll make sure he remembers every single detail about you. Your trips in Paris. How you got into your hobbies. Where you first lived when you moved out of your parents’ house. These details are important to you as they can define who you are. If he remembers these things, then he values you more than anything. If not, then you must accept that he doesn’t have those special feelings for you.
Warning signs are just signs that will tell you something. They don’t give you the right answers for your question. However, they can give you clues as to whether or not you need to move on or continue playing this game. But if you want to have serious relationship and he’s showing these signs, then it’d be better to find someone who could really give you the sun and the moon just to be with you.